Women are more faithful than men, or are they?

By Justus Ndambiri

Both sexes are and have been found guilty over the years, a predicament whose root cause we are yet to find. I personally do not understand why one would go behind his/her partner. But then again, I do not know all. I cannot know all. At the end of the day, it is what it is.

Unlike men, women would cheat for love not for sex. Men are undeniably much more adventurous and would like to explore. But when a woman cheats, she does so because she has fallen out of love with one person and fallen in love with another. It is purely for love, so to speak. Women would be seeking for a deeper, much more intimate bond and relationship with a man while men on the other hand are out seeking for pleasure. Such a travesty! Others may as well argue that it is scientifically natural.

Most of the revered, (Christianity being among these) and well recognized religion on this planet have a thing for monogamy,  while at the same time some putting it clear that one man can own as many as four wives (Islam). Truth is, this issue has troubled man since time immemorial. Lately there has been an outbreak of diseases suggesting quite clear that monogamy is the way to go. This are the Sexually Transmitted Diseases the likes of Gonorrhea, Syphilis and the deadly incurable man-slayer HIV/AIDS. This monogamy……that is what I would advocate for. Man or woman, what is your cup of tea ?

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