These are mistakes almost every lady commit in relationships which usually hurt it.
Controlling
Women mostly want to control their men by dictating to them where they should be and where they should
Being overly dependent
Most women (not all) are so dependent on men and hardly want depend on themselves. They want the men to provide for their everything. This has made most men disrespect them. Women who are independent mostly get the respect of men. Men tend to go heaven and earth for independent women.
Ignoring friends and relatives
Some ladies are so clingy to one man they ignore all their friends they had before they got into a new relationship and focus only on the man, so when things go south, there’s nowhere to turn to.
Clinginess
Men tend to run away from clingy women who make it seem like their lives can’t go on without them. Find a purpose and build something solid with your man. No matter how much you adore him, make sure you can take care of yourself emotionally when they’re not around.
Social media obsession
There is a strong obsession for social media and what makes it worse is that, women tend to post almost everything about their private lives on social media, this has caused a lot of relationships to fail.
Trying to get him to be more motivated.
If he can’t get a job he actually likes (so he’s not constantly complaining about how horrible his social work job is because he hates children) on his own, you’re not going to be able to move his lazy-ass mountains.
Thinking that his past relationships don’t necessarily mean anything.
So he dated someone who was a “total whore”? Yeah, guess what? He’s going to call you that too. If anything, she was probably a “whore” you’d get along with and you could bond over the sexist idiot you both dated.
Not paying attention to the way he talks about other women.
See above, but also the way he talks about his female friends all of it adds up and speaks volumes. Don’t ignore it just because he has nice abs.
Not putting enough time into the relationship.
I get it. You’re working, you’re busy, you don’t have 24 hours a day to put into some relationship that might not go anywhere. But it’s 100 percent not going to go anywhere if you don’t spend a tiny bit more time and energy on it.
Not paying attention to early warning signs or thinking that they don’t really matter.
If the fact that he only eats stale dinner rolls for lunch bugs the hell out of you in the beginning, you’re going to throw one at his face six months from now.
Just being too lenient in general.
It’s good to let the little things slide, but if you’re letting every annoying as hell thing he does slide, you won’t realize that you don’t actually like him that much.
Not thinking it’s weird that you never hang out with his friends.
It is weird. Meeting a guy’s friends is so important because if they’re jerks, he’s probably a secret jerk too. Or, if you’re like me, you meet his friends and realize one of them is way hotter/cooler than the guy your dating, thereby making you realize you don’t really like the guy you’re dating. Sobering stuff.
Going back to the same guy who treats you like shit over and over again.
You deserve oceans of good things! Wait until you get them.
Settling for a guy who isn’t up to your standards and then trying to change him.
He’s not going to magically become obsessed with reading all the books you love at age 28.
Keeping a guy around way too long because it was so hard to find a decent guy and you don’t want to have to go through the search again.
Let me tell you something, the search is in fact terrible. But I truly believe it is not as terrible as being with a guy who is a pile of garbage wrapped in scraps of old meat.