It is a debate that has been carried out publicly, in a tete a tete, or even as rumors on who between man and woman has a huge sex drive.
For any debate o intimacy, I tend to back men as the pack leader, owning enormous sex drive. It would be much of an argument if we put in equity, the opposite sex, as having the same desire for sex.
A majority of women are not actually turned on by the act itself. Although that is the end result of what the two in bed may be thinking of, women tend to prioritize body pleasure and stimulation.
Unmasking the dilemma.
Men think about sex more than women. Just by looking at the environment, you will notice almost all men around daringly looking at that well-blessed lady, in all rounds, when she walks past them, call them team mafisi. More than half (60%) of men think about sex, at least once per day but for women, only a quarter think about it.
Other studies have shown that, when combined together, men have more varied sexual fantasies compared to women. Some seeing it as ‘daily bread’, others as testing waters, while others just for fun.
Men have also been said to be rampant and frequent on sex over the relationship. They actually have it more than lesbian couples.
Another indicator of men leading the pack in sex drive is masturbation. Over 60% of men masturbate more frequently, survey says with only 40% of women doing it like men.
The key determiner of whether a woman will have sex is the environment. This shows that the willingness to have sex is very low for women when it is compared f with men.
If the religion dictates not, women will be tempted to be influenced by it. But this would not be a bridge to men. A constant and staunch female and male Christian have a total different approach to it. They may both speak against it, but for a man may happen to do it.
Women’s turn-ons are very complicated than men’s. Turning on a woman is not as easy as turning on a man. Most women don’t even know what exactly turns them on. Men however, can be turned on at anytime and anywhere. Men are more likely to be turned or by both male-female and female-female erotic films, while most women get turned on by male-female erotic films.
When it comes to orgasms, the both genders experience it differently. Studies show that woman can take up to 11 minutes to reach orgasm while men can take only 4 minutes to reach orgasm from the point of entry. 75% of men reach orgasm during sex while only 26% of women reach orgasm during sex.
Whereas you can boost men’s libido, due to erectile dysfunction, with medication. Boosting or lowering libido in men can also be cured by the use of drugs boosting libido in women is not as effective when compared to men.
Sex is more straight-forward for men. For women to arrive at sexual desires, they tend to take different routes than men. Women have to think about it and anticipate for it so that they get there (sexual desire). It is the longing the fuels the sexual drive in women. For men, sex is very simple to them since it is straight-forward.