Social media has been considered as the most interactive sites where people can find friends and even share their feelings for advice and comfort.
But the much one shares may need a second thought especially when you are sharing your personal affairs like relationship.
One of the major decision you may have to reconsider as an individual is the fact of adding your partner on those platforms.
Why take such decision?
This could not be because you are exclusive but because you don’t want your friends and family to know more about him or her through the mutual friends and tagged photos.
Not having your partner on social media also means that there is more to learn from the person in real life; things that would normally be on his/her profile such as what his interests were, where he liked to go, and what his family were like.
This will enable you to experience this for yourself instead of dropping a few words into the Facebook search bar.
The best way to discover your partner is by interaction and not through online search. This creates a stronger bond as you make it out for several outings and fan days. On social media, your partner may read everything about you from the pictures you share, the feelings you tag yourself ‘with others’.
Not having him on social media means that the relationship is strictly private. In the early stages of our official relationship, it means that there aren’t hung-up exes trying to cause a scene. Your friends aren’t spying on either of us and nobody was able to meddle in our relationship.
Not enjoying your private lives together on social media is a true testament to our trust. You are not disclosing intimate parts of your lives, and neither are you discussing them online with other people either.
Whatever you are uploading on social media should be appropriate and respectful. Though this is a mature thought, your friends may subject you to unimaginable questions and pressure to have you give in to social media lifestyle, but for the sake of your relationship, do not.