By fair estimation, around 76% of global population have attached themselves to a given social media platform maybe Facebook, twitter, Instagram and others also have registered themselves in online dating platforms.
The major concern in this article is not social media platforms but I will try and major in Facebook, platform that has highest users, followed by WatsApp. Facebook allows you to interact with your friends, fans and followers in many different ways, something that has addicted many people hence giving birth to too many problems.
Currently, the leading group of Facebook users are people aged between 18-29 years. They dominate Facebook, sharing photos of themselves in given events, dirty or funny videos and pictures and even chatting through private messages. But does all this have a positive of negative impact to relationships?
Not by being harsh, but majority, around 65 percent of Facebook usage end results are not positive. You may see Facebook as a platform that you will build and cement your relationship by sharing photos of you together with your intimate ally, but the fact turns out that you are exposing him or her to team “mafisi.”
Naturally people are not that “genuine” with their moods. When together you may be thinking that everything is okay but immediately we part, your partner gets a chance to backbite you with his or her friends.
Look at it this way, there is that particular lady – if you are a man – who cannot avoid to like your Facebook post, comment on it and even share it to friends using words like “bae”, “sweetheart” and other romantic words. The first implication your partner will get is, you’re playing her and from this spot you have cooked war.
Sincerely speaking, and by this you can confirm with me, over 75 percent of female Facebook account friends are men, and for men, majority of friends are women, and to add insult to the wound, “sio madem hama machali kiatu” as they say.
Again when you sharing your moods status on Facebook you may also be sending to your partner, a message that, something bad is cooking depending on the kind of ‘feeling’ you share. This usually happens in case of heart-breaks and even misunderstandings. That’s when you find the couple locked on Facebook, “having fun” not knowing they are harming their relationship.
If that is the case, should you not be friends with your boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook? Should you warn his her friends who are “good-looking” than you not to comment on his or her posts” And now since Facebook is all about fun, you cannot do anything because you will be losing touch with your long serving friends. The best thing is to let each other have access to you accounts.