For a long time, the case of a single parent has been the topic with some gender complaining of how their partner left them to take care of the children single-handedly, without no help nor slight effort to know the whereabouts of one’s child.
The most affected in single parenting are women who are either dumped by their boyfriends after pregnancy discovery, divorced by their lovers, raped or got pregnant in abnormal circumstances and resolved in keeping the pregnancy.
Cases of the like (people complaining) are slowly diminishing, if not mothers or fathers are now enjoying single parenting. In some instances, several women’s have gathered up the courage and masters the way out of single parenting by wisely playing the both father-mother role in a child.as some people, mostly women are believed to have opted for raising their children single-handed.
Such are the financially stable women who want to ‘live their dream’ , not wishing to interact with that drunk man, while avoiding that guy who will punch them in their faces, ignore them or even leave them to boredom-ness and instead go to enjoy they time with friends.
There are multiple reasons that encourage women to become single mothers as some of the ladies shared their stories.
The need to have the ‘best child’
Some women dream to have that genius child who will elevate her name whenever he or she goes after the child grows up. They, therefore, avoid having a child with a man because they love him.
With already being prepared to be single mothers, and since they want to come across that face that will ever make them happy, they selectively choose the man of their dream even though they would marry him.
Their dream is to see their children achieve what they could not. And to accomplish this, such women go on hunting for not only handsome men but also men who are both geniusand in physique.
As one woman revealed, reaching such people would be easy. Though some of them may be wishing to commit themselves in long-time relationship, this poses a great challenge to them for they only target pregnancy in whichever way
ABC says that, it becomes difficult to have them without revealing one’s intention, an act that would hurt them since some men will be interested in a longtime relationship. “Calculation must be smart,” she adds saying that one must plan to meet the man while ovulating to increase chances of having them.
The tactic has not been easy for such women and when they fail, ABC says strategy two is brought on board. This involves money. Some sent people to buy sperm from different people so they can sample out the best. And to some extreme, ‘if the man has a side-dish’ is paid to harvest the sperm,’ ABC adds.
Apart from the independent women, some have also acknowledged cheating on their man with their friends so that she can conceive a child with a higher Intelligence Quotient (IQ) who would be better placed to score big in the family academic and financial level.
When the sperm is amassed. The women reportedly go for test-tube babies or even hire another woman to help her carry the pregnancy, if at all they don’t want to do it by themselves or if medically they have been out-ruled.
What then makes some women opt for sperm donated pregnancy?
Apart from their decision not to get married, but they want a child for themselves, some have different arguments on what spiked them up to go for sperm donation pregnancy.
Some women say that “donor conception” was a backup plan if they fail to meet their Mr. Right and mostly as a result of devastation after they peers got pregnant yet the time was running out for them.
Sperm donation business
Commercial sperm banks have operated in the U.S. since the early 1970s. Today, women who can afford to use them tend to do so without stigma.
The most established sperm donation website in the U.S., the Known Donor Registry, launched in 2010. Since then, it has grown to more than 16,000 members.
Known Donor Registry is like a social network sperm donation: Women and men create profiles where they have to give a name (not necessarily their own full name), and the city in which they live.
“Some men are in it for their ego, to brag to their friends, ‘Oh I got another one pregnant,’ ” a medical practitioner says.