Working together in the same office as a couple, or when you eying a given lady or man in the same office as you, or even under the same employer in the same building may not be easy for you.
However, there are those unavoidable circumstances when ou will be forced to cope up with the situation especially when your spouse lands a job with the same company as you and he or she get transferred to the branch you work from.
Working with your spouse can be bliss or a nightmare, depending on how you approach the endeavor. On the one hand, the burdens of your job can be lightened by the daily sight of the one you love.
On the other hand, a relational souring in either realm can leave you trying to avoid each other not only at home but in the office, too. This is because you have been too common for each other and you may even begin seeing your partner as brother os sister.
Typically, people will argue that where love reigns you can conquer everything but truth be told, as a man or woman you would find it easy having you spouse with you at the workplace.
Imagine having quarrelled early in the morning, and after entering the office to meet your secretary who should be preparing minutes for you in shock you discover it was your wife, how would you feel? To interact under such situation would not be easy and this may result in a poor performance of the two, risking being shown doors.
Another challenge when you are working with your partner in the same office is freedom. At such times, you are not free to socialize and mingle with your friends freely since there is an ‘eye watching’ you. If it happens that you are having fun with colleagues more than you do with your partner then this can lead to another ‘domestic quarrel’.
As a man, if your wife is that of type ‘buy me this buy me that’ then that translates to financial risk. Every moment, especially lunch hour you will be forced to clear those bills, yet her cash lays at rest in the bank.
The man ‘secrets’ under such circumstances are available at no cost to colleagues. Slight misunderstandings may provoke her to wash the dirty linen in public. Not only that, if she is that ‘spy lady’ and you don’t want to disclose you payslip then she may simply siphon the info using all means possible.
For the women, seeing your man walk freely with other women may not be sweet to swallow. There are high chances that this would lead to enmity between the two women with the wife thinking the ‘lady’ in question is the side dish.
No matter the weight of the love you have to each other, taking this simple advice for free, working in the same building as your wife or husband may not be easy.